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Mid-day at the big box grocery store.

Not too crowded, all ages.

A young dad pushing an empty cart faces his fidgeting toddler son in the cart seat. Maybe not completely comfortable with the list or the task ahead.

A familiar song begins on the overhead speakers.  Dad smiles and stands up straighter, he’s got this.

He croons the tune to his delighted son, “Just know you’re not alone, ‘cause I’m gonna make this place your home…

Beautiful.

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Restitution—a powerful word, highly charged in our world in ways I will not touch.  Intended for individuals, families, and entire communities.

A dictionary definition, “the restoration of something lost or stolen to its proper owner.”

What of emotional restitution? To children, adults, souls passed. Returning their peace, safety, their honor, the space of their memory, the warmth and trust taken away—or never given.

We all seek something. Something missing by circumstance, by nature, or nurture.  Or freedom from something done, something taken on purpose, or through ignorance, inflicted.

If we live long enough, sometimes, the quality is returned, the lack is restored, created, or given.  It is a simple question—what would you wish to be restored?

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On Saturday morning while running errands, I detoured through the local small town community park. Neatly maintained pickle ball courts and baseball fields, a well-appointed playground. Gazebos for picnicking, and a small amphitheater for outdoor concerts. Early enough that the baseball crowd had not yet arrived.

A van pulled in. What appeared to be a mom and her perhaps seven-year-old son exited the vehicle and headed to the playground.

Mom looked straight ahead, her posture tired, a chronic condition of parenthood. Walking a few feet away, the boy scampered excitedly, looking expectantly at mom.

A moment in time. The poignancy of older and younger.  One whose path has led them here, and one whose path is being formed in this moment.

Two sides of life, both ordinary and extraordinary, in an instant.

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